Do you still have a copy of your wedding ceremony? The prayers you prayed? The hopes you had that day for your life together with your new spouse? On that day, those were real and sincere. Even if that union celebrated then has since dissolved, what you and your chosen one did and said was meaningful.
Remember your intention held in your heart on your wedding day. They are treasures and codes to your true desires. They should not be easily dismissed or discard. Go back, read the prayers and remember that earlier you who helped the current you come into existence.